Showing posts with label Reverse Culture shock. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Reverse Culture shock. Show all posts

Saturday, May 26, 2012

Tastes from Ukraine

 

When thinking of Ukrainian food, this may not be the first thing that comes to mind.  In fact, it may not come to mind at all.  But for us, we remember mayonnaise chicken.  I'm sure it came about just from the creativity of the Ukrainian housewives.  They use a little of everything they have with delicious results.  Whenever they could afford it, this is what Kristina usually fed us.  Because my husband was craving it, I decided to fix some the other day...and a few more days after that as well.

Ingredients:
Mayo (1-1/2 cups)
1 egg
juice from 1/2 a lemon
some or all of the following (onion, green onion, garlic, salt, pepper)
Spices/fresh herbs (I used rosemary this time because I was craving the flavor, but you can use whatever you have...dill, oregano, basil...)

Mix all of the ingredients together.  Spread over chicken pieces in pan.
Cover with tinfoil and bake at about 325-350 for about 45-1 hr.
Any additional cooking, I usually cook at 425.
Ukrainians usually use chicken with the skins and bones.  I've done both skinless and with skins.


Monday, November 21, 2011

A Stranger of Strangers

All those months of dreaming about walking down the Walmart aisles FINALLY coming true, the funny thing was, it didn't feel quite like in my dreams.  There I was surrounded by more options and choices than I could have imagined, when I was struck with the realization...I actually enjoyed walking through the open air market more.  But I could have just been overwhelmed with all of the "cheerful" holiday shoppers, or trying to decide between the Harvest Cheddar Sunchips and the Sour Cream and Onion Baked Lays and all of my other favorite foods, or it could have been exasperation at not finding buckwheat, one of our favorite hot breakfast cereals.  I did find kefir, though. :)  Think I'll try Walmart AFTER the holidays when I can leisurely walk the aisles. 
Visiting with Eric's Uncle Gary and Aunt Penny

Here are some of my observations since coming back to America:

~ Some may remember my fascination with how big American ovens are.  Well, I am no longer fascinated by them...now I'm scared.  Every time I open the oven to pull something out I find myself panicing and making the kids go into a different room - those things put out a LOT of heat! 
Aunt Penny was loads of fun and even played ring around the rosie

~ When I first arrived I thought, "Ah, dryers.  Who needs them?"  I don't know what I was thinking.  I definitely don't know how I will go back to normal life after this!
Sammy enjoying his time with Uncle Gary.

~ I realized I needed to be careful about speaking in Russian.  In conversation with my pastor's wife and a friend, I found myself replying with the Russian word for yes... "Duh."  I was so embarrassed and quickly tried to explain myself.  Also, it is very normal for us to give commands to our children in Russian and Sammy, since he is more use to it, responds better.  You say, "What's wrong with that?"  Well, the problem came one Sunday morning when I told Sammy to give me the pen he was holding.... "Die, Sammy."  hmmm. Yeah.  Gotta watch that one.  Don't want to try explaining that to child protective services.
Obviously Uncle Micah knows the secret to capturing the attention of children...

~ If someone says "What did you just say?"  Then most likely I said "it" in Russian.

I know there are a ton more, but since it has taken so long to write this post (days).  This time of re-adjusting to the American culture has taught me one thing...I am a stranger of strangers because not only am I a stranger in a foreign land but now also in my "homeland" as it seems to have changed so much in the time we were gone...or maybe I was the one who changed?  Oh, well.  Either way, we are enjoying and cherishing our time with family.
Phone Games!

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Sad Goodbyes

Where to begin?  So much has happened since Sunday that my heart is just overwhelmed with emotions.  

Recently, Ukraine passed some new laws concerning visas.  We were not too concerned since our local OVIR (place of registration) seemed to think they wouldn't affect us.  They kept telling us to come back when they knew more.  Eric visited OVIR 2 times a week for over a month, receiving the same answer until this Monday.  This time we were told that, due to being issued the wrong visa, Lydia and Sammy could not stay legally in the country past Friday.  That night Eric purchased tickets for the kids and I.  Everything has been a mix of blessings and tears since then.  So many mixed emotions that I don't think I could begin to describe.  Amidst all of the tears of saying goodbye {and there have been many}, we have been singing the Lord's praises for how He is working everything out.

For the past year, we have been searching for someone who could fill in for us while we took a much needed furlough (April marks 5 years).  Each time, the Lord closed the door and we just assumed that the answer was "Not right now."  Over the weekend we were contacted by a former missionary to Russia who was no longer able to get a visa.  He was interested in coming to help us with our ministry for a few weeks.  When we found out our situation on Monday, Eric called him and asked if he would be willing to fill in for us.  Last night he said that he and his wife had perfect peace about filling in, not only just so we could have the baby and get new visas, but for a year so we could take a furlough!  We cannot believe how quickly God has worked everything out and know that He is in control.  Please pray that he is able to receive his visas with no problems.  Also for the visa situation in Ukraine, pray that everything will be worked out so we have no trouble when it is time for us to return.  He is planning on coming in 3 weeks and his wife will join him a little later.  Eric is going to stay 3 weeks after he gets here to help him get settled and finish a few things here.

Because we are leaving, the church threw a little going away party for us and also gave Lydia some early birthday gifts.  We took pictures BEFORE the tears started to flow...though I think Lina got some videos that I won't share.  Should have brought waterproof mascara!  We are excited to see our families and church family, but it is very hard to leave everyone especially on such a short notice.  Here are some {LOTS} pictures of our last Wednesday in Ukraine...
 



They even had a little present for Anna.

Our dear Valentina.  Pray for her.  She has such a rough situation at home and is very close to our children.  When my mom left, she told Valentina that she was to take care of us and Valentina has taken her job very seriously.  She has truly become a part of our family.
 

Our translator and my closest friend, Lina.






My tired little guy.

The sunset on the way home.  The picture can't even come close to how beautiful and perfect the sun was...a redish/orange, perfect circle.

I was going to post a video of everyone singing in Russian as I absolutely LOVE to hear the hymns in Russian and will miss it greatly, but I was bawling too much.  Kristina came up to me, bawling as well, and we just hugged until we were okay.  Even Yuri had tears in his eyes.  We love them all very much, but we know they are not ours but the Lord's and He will do a much better job taking care of them than we ever could.

Well, I need to get back to bed.  It's 3:42 AM here and I desperately need sleep.  Tomorrow is a busy day.  Our train leaves tomorrow evening at 11:30 (4:30 pm EST).  It will be a long train ride and that is before our flight even starts.  We fly out of Kiev at 1:30 PM on Friday (6:30 am EST) and get in to Washington around 8 that evening.  We only have one layover, so that's a blessing and Eric has also arranged for assistance during that time.  It will be a long trip, so would appreciate your prayers.  I have prepared a "surprise" backpack of goodies that will hopefully help the kids make it.  I also would appreciate your prayers for the kids as they will not understand why daddy can't be with us right now.  Anna already is "praying" that she can come home {here} and keeps giving Eric hugs/kisses, saying that she will miss him and cry.  We have told her about all she will get to do in America and she is especially excited to get to see Auntie Bree again.  I just found out also that my dad will be flying out to visit with us in November as well, so I know she will be excited to see Grampy.  Thanks for your prayers!

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